Hello little men. I thought I had better post something to my journal since it has been awhile. Today’s message to submissives….. use caution when approaching a dominant woman and state your purpose.

Let me make it clear for you. Last week some simpleton called me and the conversation went like this:

“Hello”

“Hello Goddess Pagan”.

“Yes, and who is this?”

(run on sentences used purposely as this nitwit rambled in the same fashion) “My name is Steve and I saw your site and I know that you said only to call when someone is serious about a session but I read your whole website and I wanted to tell you about myself to see if you wanted me to join your stable. So I sent you and email and I want you to read it and you will see it with my email address of whatever@annoying.com. So when you read it I think you will…..”

“Be just as annoyed as I am now? Yeah, I’ll read it and let you know – goodbye”.

As a matter of fact his email was NOT sent to me until an hour later as noted in the time. Meaning this jack off wanted to call me and bather away as he did. When I received his email of course I didn’t read it – I simply wrote him back that I was “Not Interested”.

Now let’s review this together my dear pets. I’m a dom, like there are many dominant women on the internet. It is NOT proper behavior for any slave to approach ANY dom in such a pushy manner. My time is not free for discussions of your interests. The best way to earn your way into to my “stable” is to purchase a call, do a phone session. How else will I know if I like you and you like me? While my website reflects a lot of my personality – it is not like having a conversation with me. Ultimately you as a caller and me must have a certain chemistry to make our sessions enjoyable. It’s not something that you can predict.

I don’t appreciate pushiness. Approach is everything and that first impression sets the tone. My attitude will have a lot to do with HOW you approach me and if you are capable of stating your purpose.

Some positive examples…..

“Hello Goddess Pagan I’d like to set up a session now if possible”.
“Hello Goddess Pagan, I loved your website and I’d like to do a call now if you have time”.

Why do I want my tele-subbies to approach me in such a manner? Well, I am a strong intelligent woman and I’d like you to approach me as an intelligent man with class who knows he must ASK me if I have time for him. Pushy slaves demanding more time or attention BEFORE I know them will always always be rejected.

I cannot and will not accept any topping from the bottom. Some tele-subbies attempt this and basically … it only irritates me more. I am a pretty serious personality… I’m very strong willed and I say what *I* want to say to you at every moment. I DO want to hear your input about what you like, and what you don’t of course. That’s why I will spend the time asking you questions and getting to know you before we start. Once we start, I expect you to shut up and take it. Ya had your chance in the beginning; and you can again have a chance after our call to email me or tell me on the phone the direction you want to see us head in the future. But during MY time — just give it up. Pushiness only will make me not like you.